What if the church's discomfort with evangelism is telling us something important?
Few words make Christians more uncomfortable than evangelism. For some, it evokes memories of pressure, awkward conversations, or techniques designed to persuade. For others, it raises feelings of guilt and inadequacy. We know Jesus commissioned his followers to make disciples, yet many churches struggle to know what faithful evangelism looks like in today's world.
This is not to deny that there are times when evangelism requires words. The New Testament is full of examples of faithful and courageous proclamation. Peter preached publicly at Pentecost (Acts 2:14–41) and before hostile authorities (Acts 4:8–20). Paul reasoned in synagogues and marketplaces (Acts 17:17), defended the gospel before rulers (Acts 24–26), and declared, "I am not ashamed of the gospel" (Romans 1:16).
Yet alongside these examples of proclamation, we find something equally important: communities whose common life bore witness to the reality of God's Kingdom. The believers devoted themselves to teaching, fellowship, prayer, worship, and shared life (Acts 2:42–47). Their message and their manner of life belonged together. Perhaps part of our difficulty today is that we have separated the Great Commission from the kind of community Jesus envisioned. We read Matthew 28:19–20 as a command to go, but forget that Jesus also told his disciples to teach people to obey everything he had commanded them.
What if the challenge is not primarily that we need better evangelistic techniques, but that we need to become communities that more clearly embody the life and teachings of Jesus?
If the Great Commission tells us to make disciples, then the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5–7) shows us what those disciples are meant to look like. Perhaps evangelism and discipleship were never meant to be separated.
The Sermon on the Mount as a Vision of Church Life
Matthew 5–7 is often treated as a collection of individual ethical teachings. But perhaps it is more than that. Perhaps it is Jesus' vision of a community shaped by the values of God's Kingdom. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus describes a people whose very existence becomes a witness.
Not a people known primarily for programmes.
Not a people known primarily for influence.
A people whose life together embodies a different way of being human.
If that is true, then the church's challenge is not first evangelistic strategy. It is discipleship.
The Beatitudes as Church Culture
Imagine encountering a church known for:
•Poverty of spirit rather than certainty (Matthew 5:3)
•Mercy rather than judgement (Matthew 5:7)
•Peacemaking rather than tribalism (Matthew 5:9)
•Hunger for righteousness rather than self-preservation (Matthew 5:6)
•Humility rather than self-importance (Matthew 5:5)
Such a church would be remarkable precisely because it would be so unusual. Many churches, often unintentionally, project strength, success, confidence, and certainty. Yet Jesus begins his most famous sermon with weakness, dependence, humility, and mercy.
Peter echoes this posture when he writes:
"God opposes the proud but shows favour to the humble." 1 Peter 5:5
Perhaps the first question churches should ask is:
If someone spent six months among us, which qualities would they notice first, the Beatitudes or our programmes?
The answer may reveal more about our witness than any evangelism initiative ever could.
A Personal Reflection
My own journey to faith has shaped how I think about evangelism.
I did not come to know Jesus because someone presented a perfectly crafted argument about why I should become a Christian.What changed my life was much simpler. Someone phoned me and invited me to come and experience Jesus. That invitation led me to an Alpha Course. From there, I became connected to a community of believers. Looking back, it wasn't a particular argument that convinced me. It was the people.
This reminds me of Jesus' words to his first disciples:
"Come and see." John 1:39
And Philip's invitation to Nathanael:
"Come and see." John 1:46
The first invitations to faith were often not arguments. They were invitations into an encounter. I encountered the heart of Jesus through a community. Through friendships, conversations, worship, Bible studies, meals, and acts of kindness, I slowly learned what it meant to follow Christ.
The early church seems to have operated in a similar way:
"They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer." Acts 2:42
And as they lived together:
"The Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved."
Acts 2:47
People were drawn to a community shaped by Christ. In many ways, my experience feels closer to the New Testament pattern than some modern ideas of evangelism. I was invited into a community before I understood everything. I experienced Christian life before I could fully explain Christian doctrine. Perhaps that is why I struggle when evangelism is reduced to techniques and strategies. My own story suggests that people are often drawn to Jesus when they encounter a community that is genuinely trying to follow him.
A Community That Loves Enemies
This may be the most difficult aspect of Jesus' teaching.
Jesus commands, "Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you." Matthew 5:44
In an increasingly polarised world, churches can easily become defined by opposition. Yet a church shaped by the Sermon on the Mount would be known for something different.
Not the absence of conviction. Not the abandonment of truth. But the refusal of contempt. That distinction matters. The world is full of people who know how to disagree. What is increasingly rare are communities that can disagree without hatred, opposition without hostility, and conviction without contempt.
Paul expresses a similar vision:
"Let your conversation be always full of grace." Colossians 4:6
Such communities bear witness to Christ in ways that arguments alone never can.
Truthfulness Without Performance
One of Jesus' recurring concerns in the Sermon on the Mount is religious performance. "Be careful not to practise your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them." Matthew 6:1
Churches embody the Sermon on the Mount when they become places where people no longer feel compelled to pretend.
Places where:
•Doubt can be acknowledged.
•Failure can be confessed.
•Weakness can be admitted.
•Leaders can be honest about their limitations.
There is an intriguing connection here with the Great Commission itself. Matthew tells us:
"When they saw him, they worshipped him; but some doubted." Matthew 28:17
The Great Commission was given not to perfect believers, but to worshipping doubters. Why should the church pretend otherwise?
A Different Relationship with Power
The Sermon on the Mount presents a radically different vision of power. Jesus speaks of:
•Turning the other cheek (Matthew 5:39)
•Going the extra mile (Matthew 5:41)
•Loving enemies (Matthew 5:44)
•Giving generously (Matthew 6:1–4)
This way of life reflects Jesus himself who:
"did not come to be served, but to serve." Mark 10:45
The church often worries about influence, but Jesus taught:
"Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant."
Matthew 20:26
The question is not whether the church is powerful. The question is whether it is recognisably shaped by Christ.
Why Evangelism Feels Uncomfortable
Perhaps the discomfort arises because Christians instinctively recognise that proclamation without embodiment lacks credibility.
Jesus himself said:
"By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." John 13:35
Notice that Jesus does not point first to arguments, programmes, or strategies. He points to the quality of the community's life together.
The Church as the Gospel Made Visible
Peter writes:
"Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have." 1 Peter 3:15
The assumption is that people first see something distinctive and then ask about it. Witness emerges from a visible life. Mission theologian Lesslie Newbigin captured this beautifully when he wrote:
"I know of only one real hermeneutic of the gospel: a congregation which believes it."
By this, Newbigin did not simply mean a congregation that agrees with the gospel intellectually. He was speaking of a community whose life together makes the gospel understandable. The most persuasive interpretation of the good news is not found in a clever argument but in a people whose lives are being transformed by Jesus Christ. Dietrich Bonhoeffer expressed a similar vision:
"Christianity means community through Jesus Christ and in Jesus Christ. No Christian community is more or less than this."
Perhaps even more striking is Bonhoeffer's observation:
"The church is not a religious community of worshippers of Christ but is Christ himself who has taken form among people." Bonhoeffer is not suggesting that the church replaces Christ. Rather, he is reminding us that Christ chooses to make himself known through his people. The church becomes a living testimony to his grace, mercy, forgiveness, truth, and love. This resonates deeply with my own story. I encountered Jesus through a community of believers. It was not simply what they believed that influenced me, but how they lived, worshipped, served, welcomed, and cared for one another. Through them, I caught a glimpse of Christ. The early church seems to have understood this instinctively. They proclaimed the risen Jesus boldly, but they also formed communities marked by fellowship, prayer, generosity, hospitality, and mutual care (Acts 2:42–47).
Their message and their manner of life belonged together.
Perhaps that is why the Great Commission and the Sermon on the Mount cannot be separated. One tells us to make disciples; the other shows us what disciples look like. One commissions the church to go; the other shapes the kind of people who go. When those two things remain together, evangelism becomes more than communication. It becomes an invitation into a community where Christ is being formed among his people.
A Different Reading of the Great Commission
Jesus commands his followers:
"Go and make disciples of all nations ... teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you." Matthew 28:19–20
What has Jesus commanded? The fullest answer in Matthew's Gospel is found in the Sermon on the Mount. Perhaps the Great Commission is not primarily:
"Go and get more people into church."
But:
"Become a community shaped by my teaching and invite others into that way of life." That is a much deeper and more demanding challenge than learning evangelistic techniques. It shifts the question from:
How do we get people to listen to us?
To:
Are we living the kind of life that makes the teachings of Jesus plausible?
My own story points in that direction. I was not argued into the Kingdom of God. I was invited into a community through which I encountered the living Christ.
A Final Pastoral Thought
Perhaps all of this is good news for churches that feel inadequate, discouraged, or uncertain about evangelism. The Great Commission was never given to experts. It was given to ordinary disciples, people who worshipped, yet still doubted (Matthew 28:17). They did not possess polished strategies, impressive buildings, or cultural influence. What they had was a living relationship with the risen Christ and a community being transformed by his Spirit.
Perhaps God is less concerned with how impressive our evangelism programmes are and more concerned with whether we are becoming the people Jesus calls us to be.
A church that practises mercy.
A church that tells the truth.
A church that welcomes strangers.
A church that prays for enemies.
A church that forgives.
A church that loves one another.
Such a church will not be perfect. It will stumble, repent, and begin again. But in its weakness it may offer the world something increasingly rare: an authentic glimpse of the Kingdom of God.
And perhaps that is where evangelism begins, not with pressure to have all the answers, but with the quiet confidence that Jesus is still at work among his people. After all, the Great Commission ends not with a command, but with a promise:
"And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." Matthew 28:20
The burden of saving the world does not rest on the church. It rests on Christ. Our calling is simpler, though no less demanding: to follow him faithfully, to become a community shaped by his teaching, and to invite others to come and see.
For when people encounter a church that genuinely reflects the character of Jesus, they may discover, as I did, that the most compelling argument for Christ is not an argument at all, it is Christ made visible in his people.
